Self-Responsibility

Change Your Life- Now

Do you find yourself in these frustrating situations?

  • You know what to do, but your hands are tied.
  • You don’t know where to start because you have too much work and too little time.
  • You feel alone in the tasks you have to tackle because there isn’t anyone who will co-operate with you.
  • You feel isolated because you cannot trust anyone.
  • You’re tired of others dumping their problems on you- physically and emotionally.
  • You’re constantly bound by issues with money.

The key to solving each of these problems lies with the common denominator in each situation:

You.

It all starts and ends with you.

You’re probably saying to yourself, “I only want the best in my life, so how am I responsible for such unpleasant situations?”

The answer lays in a Universal Law- the Law of Resonance.

 

What is resonance?

To understand this law, let’s look at how resonance works-

Resonance occurs when the vibration produced in one object is caused by the vibration in another object. They resonate because they vibrate at the same frequency. The synergy of the frequencies amplifies the vibrating energy.

The important fact to grasp is resonance occurs when frequencies match. This means when it comes to resonance, like attracts like. (Remember this for later.)

Everything in the universe is made of matter. All matter is made of atoms and all atoms vibrate and produce energy. The energy they give off vibrates at different frequencies.

You and I are made of matter, so we also have millions of atoms that vibrate, produce energy and give off different frequencies. So, you and I each have our own resonance field.

 

What is the Law of Resonance?

The Law of Resonance says that everything that someone consciously or unconsciously calls into his life will show up. The law of resonance always says: “Yes!” It activates the law of attraction and determines exactly what will come into your life.

Therefore, from the eyes of mathematics and physics, it is impossible that you are in a life situation that is another person’s fault.

 

How does the Law of Resonance work?

The Law of Resonance is based on your thoughts, beliefs and emotions.

Your thoughts, beliefs and emotions affect the way your atoms move and in turn, the energy they produce and give off. This means they affect the patterns of vibration and your resonance field.

The thoughts, beliefs and emotions you have, give off frequencies, which in turn attract circumstances or things into your life with matching frequencies. This explains how the Law of Resonance affects what you attract into your life.

Remember, in resonance, like attracts like. Negative thoughts, emotions or beliefs attract negative situations. But, if they’re positive, they’ll attract positive circumstances.

It’s similar to the way a radio works. You are the transmitter and receiver at the same time. You transmit certain frequencies, which are determined by your thoughts, beliefs and emotions. In turn, they are played back into your life with matching signals. You set the frequency, and the clearer the frequency, the clearer the reception.

 

How does this affect you?

A person is the sum of all his experiences…

The way you grew up, your education, the environment, life situations, diseases, etc. have shaped you. All these experiences are stored in your body’s cells. It doesn’t matter how long ago something happened or whether the people involved are alive or not.

Your unconscious belief system developed from all these experiences. It’s what you’re convinced of and what you strive for. It directs your thoughts, beliefs and actions about 95% of your time and is what you unconsciously emit. In turn, it determines your resonance field.

As long as you are not aware of this, your unconscious belief system sends out signals that may be attracting circumstances you don’t want. To use the example of the radio again, you will hear the music you “unconsciously” set up – but not what you want to listen to consciously!

Look at your current life situation. What topics resonate with you?

Are you blamed for things you have not influenced? Or, are you not taken seriously enough? Perhaps you’re bullied or overstretched. Maybe your stomach cramps because you think you cannot meet expectations. Does your head ache because you fear your colleague might be better than you? Are you afraid to embarrass yourself? Maybe you’re scared you’ll lose your job….

You’ll find the topics you resonate with are precisely the ones you (unconsciously) send out to want – or do not want to have – it’s the same thing. Remember the fundamental principle of resonance – like attracts like.

 

How can you make your life better?

Whatever your personal theme is you’re struggling with now, I’m sure you’ve experienced it before.

After reading this, you may be thinking, “I am a victim of my circumstances. Will I be able to make my life better?”

As long as you give your responsibility to others, you cannot change anything in your life. You remain dependent on whether or not others are willing to change.

You are powerless.
Here’s the good news: You can be the hero of your own story. You can change the way your story ends.

Decide to change – now! Be the change yourself. Taking responsibility for yourself is not always easy. But it’s worth it.

Start by accepting what is. Stop fighting against it. Resistance is futile. It aggravates the situation because you are pouring more energy into it. Moaning about it will make the problem stick to you even more.

Only with the acceptance of what is now can you make a change.

Next, accept what has happened in your past. It’s over. You cannot change it. Do not let this affect your presence negatively!

Your life up until now may have been a fight for survival. You may have experienced this struggle in your childhood and as you fought for your right to exist. That was fine for then, but today you are grown up. Today you have new, better ways to deal with challenges. Stop fighting and create completely new possibilities.

You can create new thoughts, beliefs and emotions, to change your life in a positive way.

Start now and dare to be the person you’ve always wanted to be. You can achieve almost anything you want. You can be incredibly creative and inventive.

You may have fears, doubts and worries, it’s normal. Instead of rejecting them, use them as keys to open doors of understanding and discovery that will take you to new paths of strength and growth.

If you are serious about changing your life and need a helping hand to start, please contact me. Together we will identify the main trigger for your current situation and determine how to change it into a better life. There’s nothing to fear. I will walk alongside you to teach, guide and support you.

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